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Could Toe Spacers Help Clear Your Head?

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Ever notice how your brain seems to go into overdrive just when you need clarity most?


You know you want to feel better. You know something needs to change. But when it comes time to make a move—whether it’s booking that session, changing your routine, or finally acting on what you know—you stall out in a fog of overthinking.


What if the problem isn’t all in your head?


What if your feet—specifically your toes—have something to do with it?


A Quick Recap


In my last post, The Hidden Source of Aging No One’s Talking About, I wrote about how modern shoes quietly disrupt your body’s natural mechanics. Narrow toe boxes, excessive cushioning, and rigid soles change the shape of your feet over time, weakening your foundation and impairing the very movements that keep you young, balanced, and agile.


When your feet stop functioning well, your body pays the price. But here’s what I didn’t realize until recently…


Your mind does too.


My Story: The Turning Point Wasn’t What I Thought


I used to sprain my ankles regularly. I had chronic foot pain that made me miserable. I had more than one run-in with plantar fasciitis. I always felt a little off—like my body and brain weren’t quite synced up.


Then I found Human Design, and everything started to shift. I felt more connected, more confident in my decisions, more… myself.


But looking back, the timeline is interesting. Around that same period, I also transitioned to barefoot shoes, started strengthening my feet, and began to focus more on mobility training. And now I’m wondering if that reconnection I attributed to something esoteric might have had far more to do with something physical.


Because today, I feel more comfortable in my body than ever before. I don’t overthink the way I used to. My instincts speak clearly. I can feel truth in my body—and I act on it.


That clarity began when I got back in touch with the parts of me that had been stuffed into shoes and ignored for decades.


Why Your Feet Matter More Than You Think


Your feet are your primary data collectors. They’re loaded with sensory receptors designed to tell your brain where you are in space, how balanced you are, and what kind of support or feedback you need.


When your toes are crammed together and your arches are collapsed, those feedback loops shut down. The brain isn’t getting clear input, so it can’t make clear decisions.


As a result, your nervous system goes on high alert.


It’s like trying to read a map with blurry glasses. You’ll waste a lot of time trying to “figure things out” with your mind—when the real issue is the quality of the input you’re receiving from your body.


Take a look at your toes, right now. They should be the widest part of your feet. You should be able to see daylight in between each of them.


Can you?


If not, you may want to consider getting toe spacers. If possible, get them custom made. Creating space between your toes restores the natural architecture of your foot, reawakens sensory pathways, and helps take your nervous system off high alert.


It may seem subtle, but subtle changes in the nervous system ripple outward.


When the Body is Silent, the Mind Gets Loud


I work with a lot of people who are stuck in loops of indecision and overwhelm. They’re smart. They’ve done the healing work. They know what they should do—but they just can’t bring themselves to act.


Sound familiar?


Often, the problem isn’t a lack of information. It’s a lack of connection. When the body isn’t clearly communicating with the brain, the mind takes over and tries to run the show… but it doesn’t know how to lead.


So you analyze. You hesitate. You second-guess. You wait.


That’s not intuition. That’s interference.


And sometimes, the fix isn’t another mindset hack or energy session. Sometimes, the fix is getting your feet out of their prisons and giving your brain a reason to trust your body again.


This Realization Changed the Way I Look at the Decision Making Process


As I’ve worked more with the older expat population here in Ecuador, fall prevention has become a key focus. But the deeper I looked into it, the more it hit me: this isn’t just about aging.


It’s about reconnection.


Most people—regardless of age—are living with disconnected feet, poor movement patterns, and zero body awareness. And then we wonder why we feel stuck, stressed, and out of alignment.


That’s why I’ve restructured the How to Human program.


Before we talk about Human Design or decision-making or authenticity… we need to start with the body. With feet. With breath. With restoring the communication pathways that are meant to guide you.


We’re adding a new course to do exactly that. And the Human Design course is being reimagined to help you apply insight once the channels of communication are open.


It’s not about blindly following your chart or doing a perfect protocol. It’s about building a relationship with your body that’s clear, functional, and trustworthy.


From there, alignment isn’t just possible—it becomes inevitable.


Start with One Simple Step


If you’ve been stuck in your head…

If you’re overwhelmed with decisions and unsure where to begin…

If you want to feel better but can’t seem to take action…


Start small.


Start with toe spacers. Wear them while you make dinner or take a short walk. Don’t try to fix anything. Just observe.


Let your body speak. And when it does, listen.


This might be the thing that gets everything else moving again.

Because you don’t need a whole new life right now.


You just need to take one step—barefoot and intentional—toward a new way of being.


Did this Resonate With you?


I'd love to hear about it! Share your reflections in the comments. And, once you get your toe spacers, let me know how this experiment plays out and which other areas of your life start to change.


And, if you'd like to go deeper into the feet-brain/mind-body reconnection process, start living more authentically, and let the healing take care of itself, schedule an Authentic Alignment session. I'd love to guide you back to yourself.


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